I'm kind of in a similar situation like yourself. My friend and I also had the same interests. Her and I are no longer talking and her going NC on me forced me to reevaluate things and to make myself better. I am still healing and wondering myself if she'll come back to me or not. I can only imagine how you are feeling. It is devastating to lose someone you care about a lot and are close to. I agree with what kamikazebaby said. I also want to pass along some advice that a wonderful person on here gave me. Just wait and see what happens. Allow yourself some time to heal and give each other some space. I'm sorry you're going through this. Good luck and hope everything works out for you and your friend.