I hate the whole eye contact, no eye contact thing. I have abuse issues relating to eye contact and I have talked with T about it. He likes to use the couch, which I have not yet, because it takes the need or desire for eye contact out of the equation. He says it makes it easier.

I do sneak peeks on occasion. Today I did it while we were playing cards. It was during a moment he was looking at his cards for a long time so I got a good look. It was funny cause I was thinking "oh, that's what he looks like."