selfy and stefano

thank you both so much for responding... yes, i agree, there is little reason for me to feel this guilt. i believe it comes from that deep "do the right thing" training i received. i get so angry at times the other sibs don't help. i just can't do it that way.

mom is poor financially as you might imagine. i think that partly explains her reluctance to seek help. but what she doesn't seem to realize is the position her relctance has put the kids into, and it's something hard for me to find a way to explain. DAM that accident! No, it wasn't even an accident. the fallout is still coming... thanks again : )