Don't ask me pointed questions about my present-day life or past stuff if I haven't specifically brought up that area to talk about.....in depth.

Current T seemed to get this pretty quickly.

Not sure though if I set up that boundary because of my fit (or rather, lack thereof) with her or it's just a natural boundary I have in therapy (I know I have it with most others in my life).

Somehow found myself relaxing it though (for some stuff at least) with a promising, potential new T and have been feeling pretty okay about it.