I have a niece that's in elementary school. She's been told not to say any comments on how people look. I have big boobs & she criticized me saying I have long boobs. She's criticized other things about me. Then one day she used my mom's phone to call me. It was like a slap in the face when she said please don't say your busy she said everyone she called that night was busy. It really hurt my feelings her saying those things. It's not just her who treat me that way. The rest of my family treats me the same way. I'm not important to my family.