I would like to make a gentle reminder to members to be careful of taking a thread off topic and unsupportive when interacting between one another. The OP posted a difficult subject and many of us will have differing opinions and experiences. Threads are not the place to take issue with another member and continue the issue to the point of taking the thread off topic and unsupportive.
If you look up at the beginning of each page in this forum there is a link to something extremely important to remember here. Please take a moment to read it again, step away from the computer if need be for a bit, put another on ignore for awhile to make yours and everyone else's experience as best as it can be here.
http://forums.psychcentral.com/psych...ment-here.html
It's okay to have differing opinions, it's not okay to call one another out over those opinions and make it personal.
Thanks!