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Old Jul 21, 2016, 01:05 PM
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Hi C2015

I can understand that it might seem like a huge rejection for you, and I'm sorry this is causing you so much hurt

But I'd really recommend you talking to your family about this, and in the least maybe it will help venting some of those feelings to them. It's got to be hard feeling the way you do and keeping it in, when you're seeing everyone but your photos up..........??

And it is possible that you'll get some of the answers you need to be able to move on (however that is).............on one hand it might be that they feel you closest to them in some ways...........you're more "burnt into their hearts" so they don't need pictures to hold onto........to evidence your place/presence so to speak..........that may sound strange but some people honestly do "work that way".
It may be that they feel that other people may need more validation...........may need to see how much they matter by having their photos on display.........it may be that other people can be kind of summed up in a photo, but you're one of those who can't be...........more dimensions to you........it may be no photo has "done you justice",,,,,....you may have made a comment at one time about having your photo taken and they're under the belief that that's not your "thing", being on display.............
It doesn't have to be personal

But worth talking to them about it..........and worse case scenario, they do see you as more distant in the family..........maybe you both/all could work on "building some bridges"..........sometimes, with committment on both/all sides that can be easier to do and much more rewarding than it may first seem............
But either way..........maybe you'll get some of the answers you need............



Alison
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