As a t, I really don't think this is stalker behaviour. I think it shows a deep longing for connection with your t. I think it's a very personal question and each individual therapist would answer it differently. I really don't feel it would warrant any red flags for me if a client did that but telling me they did that would be different. It depends on how they tell it and would they own their own strong feelings and what those feelings were. I guess I would worry about erotic transference and be curious about what was happening under the initial just wanting to see your t.
I have often wanted to see my t outside of session and drive by her house but I strongly resisted because I won't allow my obsessions to dictate my behaviour. I always think about others boundaries and if I would be comfortable if someone did that to me. Loco, I just wanted to say you did nothing wrong and if you feel you can't tell your t about it, I would trust your intuition perhaps you know or feel your t would not be happy about this and that's ok because those are her boundaries. Every t has completely different boundaries. Would you want to know or be comfortable if someone wanted to catch a glimpse of you?

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