I hope a can get so advice here. A little about my situation. Me and my wife separated about two weeks ago, after she found out I was cheating through text messages for about a year. Before I get the backlash here, I just want to say how horrible I feel about the situation, I beat myself up everyday, and I go by the saying, I made this bed of nails, I will gladly lay in it for her. I lied about it the first time, and the 2nd time she found more evidence, I broke down and told her the truth. We have an amazing 18 month old together. I will fight the devil himself to get my wife back. I just currently started counseling to figure out just why I did what I did, because even I don't have answers.

The woman I talked to were from across the country and I have never actually acted upon meeting them (I know that doesn't make it any better) I have sense moved out. I see my son during the weekends, and Ill stop by after work to see him. She says "I don't know" if we will get back together, at first she said she thought we just needed time, and that she thought it could be fixed. Now, she says she doesn't know if she could love me again.

I am in need of answers, I am struggling right now with what to do. How do I prove to her that I am changing. I hate what I did, and I would walk through hell to fix it. If time is what she needs, then if it takes 2 years to do so, then that is what is it.


Any advice? Could this be fixed?