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Old Jul 21, 2016, 01:59 PM
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Originally Posted by monalisasmile View Post
As a t, I really don't think this is stalker behaviour. I think it shows a deep longing for connection with your t. I think it's a very personal question and each individual therapist would answer it differently. I really don't feel it would warrant any red flags for me if a client did that but telling me they did that would be different. It depends on how they tell it and would they own their own strong feelings and what those feelings were. I guess I would worry about erotic transference and be curious about what was happening under the initial just wanting to see your t.

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Are you saying that the act would not ring alarm bells for you but that a patient reporting the act would ring alarm bells?