Boundaries are always tricky because they are different with everyone. The boundaries between a t and client are perhaps more difficult to navigate, they can be both confusing and hurtful and exactly like Echos mentioned like an invisible electric fence. Sometimes we don't know when we have crossed a line with somebody else but we know when somebody crosses our lines and that's sometimes all we have to judge by.
Loco, how are you doing with all of this?
I just wanted you to know that I felt like a stalker too with my first t and she thought me about boundaries, before therapy I had never heard of the word. I used to ring through to her voicemail every night, I just needed to hear her voice! She was not pleased and immediately let me know this was crossing her boundaries. I think we all long for connection and it's only natural to seek that from someone who listens to us and tries to understand us!

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