I drove by t1's house once. I believed that I had pushed a boundary and never told T about it. I only did that once. I was too scared that he would take issue with it and I believe that I did no harm.

I have stayed in t1's waiting room and stayed in my car outside his practice when having a bad time after a session. I don't think that is at all stalker-ish. He knew and didn't have a problem with it.

Funny thing: today t1 told me how to get to the house he will be moving into. As in directions from my house to his. I may drive by there and would not hesitate to tell him that.