Hey confused. When our host one first found out about the others she hated it. She wanted them to go away, she wanted them to not to be real, she hated every single thing about them, especially the kid ones. She would have happily killed them off if she could!!!
It isnt that way anymore tho.
I know what you mean about not being able to make anyone get older. Of course you can't! They are what they are and they are that way for a reason. They are not gonna change just because some person says hey, you should, grow older. Nu-uh.
Anyways, it took a long time for the hosty one to get to accept what was going on. It took about 10 years for her to feel kindness to one particular inside kid.