I don't really know the answer to this one...I think thats part of the reason I'm avoiding relationships atm...

Has your partner ever said anything about your scars? Perhaps if they mention them you might be able to turn it into a conversation where you explain more about you so they have more of an idea.

Or when they ask you how you are just generally, if you happen to be having a bad day be honest about it and then explain...

My guess is that you partner might have more of an idea than you think. They might just be leaving you to talk about it in your own time as and when you want to.

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