IMO there are few things that really fall under the "false hope" category. I believe all things are possible with God. But short of that, we really don't know the future. It appears you are the one who has given up totally for any future with your friend. It shows how hurt you are (((hugs))).

I've always said that it's not what we go through, but how we go through it.

Situations change and the only thing that remains constant is our involvement. Try and find a way to move on in your own life, with the glimmer of hope for your friend too. Become stronger within yourself and perhaps your friend will see that strength and allow you to share some of her own heartbreak? She may be wanting to protect you from her misery, or perhaps keeping you from seeing how she really feels (miserable) so that you will stay her friend regardless, with hopes for it to be a good friendship once again.

tc