Okay I read your situation and I feel like I have some kind of answer for you I know what it is like feeling like nobody wants you and feeling inadequate but you have to realize this is not your problem these girls you speak of could just be girls who are struggling with mental illness, no job etc and therefore are in no state to even think of dating anyone. Please don't take this personal because we don't reply some of us are in our own **** and think that a guy hitting on us is the last problem we need in the sea of the problems we have (or at least that's how I see it because I am depressed and men seem to trigger deeper feelings of depression and helplessness) but honestly it sometimes is the two right people but the situation is just ****ed because they both have different problems that they each can't balance out... I hope this helps good luck to you