I told my narcissist mom "no I wasn't coming on the "family vacation" for the 5th time. they always treat me like 3/4th class citizens , ignore me etc, the few times I've went.. NO THANKS....We are going on our own... fun vacation where everybody matters!!!

And my daughter just had oral surgery 5 teeth pulled, does my mom ask how she is diong? call? anything.. nope.. if it was my siblings kids , she'd be all over it, bringing them ice cream and plastering them on FB..