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Originally Posted by Shadix
A big part of the problem is that society is generally too judgmental of guys approaching girls. It is not considered normal acceptable behavior like it used to be. Now it pretty much depends on whether or not the girl finds the guy cute and cool. Girls want to judge us but they don't want to do the approaching themselves. It makes no sense to me.
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Putting aside all the stuff about society etc. What this boils down to is that if the woman finds you attractive / interesting etc, she will show interest. If she doesn't, she will reject you.
There is nothing wrong with this.
I see this rhetoric about how society says don't hit on women, but that they respond to guys that they find charming and attractive. Here's the thing. Why would they not reject men that they don't find charming and attractive?