we tgry and find stabiklity, even on the weekends.

like:

no matter what day it is, we're going to eat sausages for breakfast at 8 30

we're going to catch up on yesterday's tv shows between 12 and 3 PM

we're going to eat at 5 33

etc etc

it must be diffrent for you because you work (i don't work so i can't realy comment on it from that perspective), but it must be tough for you on the weekends because you don't have that focus to fall back on