Wow, i didn't know that the person i've been chatting with over on the dieting thread was the one who lost her husband recently. So sorry to hear it. I hope you'll have lots of self-compassion for yourself. I read that things didn't go too well for you in dieting yesterday and that today you face some obstacles again but it's a life-long project -- it's okay to have wobbles sometimes. I'm sure you'll get back to it with renewed vigor!