I really like that-- you don't have to call me back, but I need you to hold this for me-- that's so cool that you trust your T enough for him to hold onto certain feelings for you.

Personally, I am no good over the phone. I need that face-to-face connection with him. I typically don't call him to discuss very in depth things-- Meaning I might call him for something important, but it's only for me to say-- hey, here's what's going on, I really feel the need to just check in and to make sure you and I are still here. The last time I called him was one of the only times things got a bit more intense over the phone... because I was calling him to say that I felt my SI had gotten out of control.

I obviously do better with f2f contact considering I decided to tell him that certain things might mean I want to have sex with him, lol. I could never tell him anything like that over the phone. When I talk with him I need to see him right there to know that he's not going anywhere.....and a big part of it is that my T says a whole lot without saying anything at all-- it's very much in his eyes and his facial expression, and I really need to see that.