As a follow up, I went back through messages we had exchanged to see if maybe I had missed something and just three weeks earlier she made a comment about how she hoped she didn't scare me away before work slowed down. I replied that I loved her and I wasn't going to be scared off to which she replied how happy that made her. I guess that is what confuses me so much, I wouldn't think you would have that much of a change of heart in 3 weeks when nothing happened other.