Of course if you personally don't feel like you are ready to have a baby, you shouldn't yet. But when you do decide you are ready, don't let other people's opinions control you. Plenty of people with mental illnesses have children and they are great parents. The most important thing is that you love the baby, and when you do, things will work out. I don't understand why people who want children get judged for wanting them, but someone who doesn't actually want a child can have them on "accident"(I couldn't think of a better word, but children are
NEVER accidents or mistakes) and no one says anything.

I don't use Facebook anymore because I feel like it is just a way for people to brag and show off their lives to others. Live for yourself, not other people.