hey. i guess part of it will be about taking some time to get to know her. it might be that she flies off the handle if she isn't the centre of attention, that she flirts with people a little too much for your tastes, that she is a little too emotionally labile and dramatic and emotionally shallow for your tastes etc.

or it might be that as she is in a stable relationship she will start to work on her fears of intimacy and her fears of being worthless if she isn't the centre of attention. You could end up having a really good relationship with someone who helps you feel energetic and revitalised and really cared for.

can you figure out some of the things that you like...
and some of the things you aren't sure of?

it might be that you want to take things a little bit slower than you usually would so you get time to assess how things are likely to go over time.