thanks again folks, theres lots i love about the lady, her energy is infectious, i like the way she deals with her emotions quickly, could be argued as shallow, but so what! takes me weeks ,sometimes months to do the same! she is a beautiful person, i guess with myself being prone to depression, she is a breath of fresh air, i guess too ,that with books written on depression and relationships, i'm expecting one to be there for every other condition! love the person first!!!