Yeah I don't know but IMHO attacking ones neighbor is more than just weird. It's not the norm. I've lived in many different places and different countries and continents and have met plenty of weirdos. Still, No, this dysfunction isn't true for the whole world.

If you go forward with separating it might be better for you to move and he can stay put. Also nothing against swingers but it's kind of sad he isn't willing to initiate sex with you yet was willing to get it on with swingers. Don't want to bash the life style if you are into it but even suggesting it would be a deal breaker for me.

He rubs me the wrong way and I don't even know him. Good luck but IMHO you are better off

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