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Originally Posted by divine1966
Yeah I don't know but IMHO attacking ones neighbor is more than just weird. It's not the norm. I've lived in many different places and different countries and continents and have met plenty of weirdos. Still, No, this dysfunction isn't true for the whole world.
If you go forward with separating it might be better for you to move and he can stay put. Also nothing against swingers but it's kind of sad he isn't willing to initiate sex with you yet was willing to get it on with swingers. Don't want to bash the life style if you are into it but even suggesting it would be a deal breaker for me.
He rubs me the wrong way and I don't even know him. Good luck but IMHO you are better off
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Your perception is right on.
When they told us about themselves. He could have sternly said 'no way' or privately to me at any time, he could have said he had no interest. But again there he let me call all the shots and was passive. And he encouraged it.
No, we're not swingers and didn't (really) do anything with them. (Yes, did a little bit, mostly flirtation).
I was hoping it would spice up our marriage and bring us closer together, but it didn't. It did more harm than good.