I got few tips for you. You could invest in a good pair of boots, and also look for insoles that gives you a bit of extra height. For pants, the slimmer the better, the point is you wear stuff with confidence, if the size don't fit, either you don't wear them or alter them even if that cost extra money.
As for balding head, it's a male thing I suppose? Genetics are at play and it's in the field of plastic surgery or something, ordinary folks can't simply afford that sort of things. Balding men often choose to shave their head, or go find a hair stylist that could do magic for the look, or in my case, I'm growing it out along with some beard on my chin, I ask for an undercut at my barber. Don't ever lose hope for the better look, study and experiment. By the way, I had much shorter hair before, used a cap whenever I was out in the public, it was the time filled with depression and low self-esteem, guess it was bad for my thinning hair.
And there are a lot of components in one's look, you can still enjoy anything else that could make you feel and look cool/hipster-ish/Bohemian, you could choose and get into whatever you like.
I don't recommend to talk about balding head in person at all though, people might just lie saying "No, you're not balding, you look fine.". You'd wanna be just okay looking into the mirror, if you're tired and feel like crap, you may notice more about your hair, you'll find a way to live with it eventually and own it.
You may also find some good tutorials for hiding receding hairline on your brow with some cosmetics on youtube, and there's another thing, some medication could cause premature balding, whatever you decide to do, please don't go try looking like Trump's head.