Oh he is definitely in T. He will acknowledge he contributed to the reasons our marriage is where it is. He is not spiciffic. He only says when I make mentions of abuse "I can see how you would see things that way." He sound sympathetic but he never actually admits to being any of the things I say he is or has done. There is a difference in YES I DID THAT and I SEE how you would see it that way. The T has said he may never admit wtong doing. With his aspergers it simply may not be possible to admit fault.

I still have several weeks. I dont know. I still don't know yet what I will do.