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Old Jul 24, 2016, 10:34 PM
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Originally Posted by CantExplain View Post
I would be tempted to go see her in person. The idea of not getting any kind of response does not appeal to me.
I've written her several times in the past and it didn't bother me not to get a response. I don't particularly want to see her again, but it would be nice if she wrote back.
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Originally Posted by atisketatasket View Post
I'm confused. She thought you were stalking her from across the street?

As to your question, I don't see the harm. It's kind of like sometimes I get an email from a former student. It's always nice to hear what they've been up to and know they remember me.
I'm not proud of my behavior but I WAS stalking that T from across the street. It was more like from one building to another, in the same parking lot. I even used binoculars. She should have closed the blinds; they were wide open and I could see her walking around her office. I wasn't seeing her as a client when I did this. She was my first T and I didn't understand anything about transference or what therapy was about!
Thanks for this!
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