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Originally Posted by koru_kiwi
today i have realised that one of my littles is still upset about a major rupture that happened with T over four years ago (thought we had pretty much worked through it with T at the time...maybe it was other insiders who rectified with T). now this little is feeling sad and hurt again by what happened and i am not sure if it is worth dredging this up again in our session. it was quite painful the first time having to work through it  |
Maybe if it matters to them, it just matters? I am kinda feeling that way about an inner one who asked our ex t for a session recently. There are lots of reasons why I don't think we should do it (eg - it will be disruptive and painful for others) but on the other hand I think it mattered enough to this alt to ask for it, so maybe I should honor it. I haven't decided yet.
Maybe for you, if there is still hurt then there is still healing to be done?