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Old Jul 25, 2016, 09:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Big Mama View Post
Oh he is definitely in T. He will acknowledge he contributed to the reasons our marriage is where it is. He is not spiciffic. He only says when I make mentions of abuse "I can see how you would see things that way." He sound sympathetic but he never actually admits to being any of the things I say he is or has done. There is a difference in YES I DID THAT and I SEE how you would see it that way. The T has said he may never admit wtong doing. With his aspergers it simply may not be possible to admit fault.

I still have several weeks. I dont know. I still don't know yet what I will do.
That would be pretty key for me, personally.

I prefer a relationship where there's ownership on both sides. Not I can see how YOU could think/feel/see that, but I can see how My actions can affect you. So let's work together on our communication.

My sons father has yet to accept his role and might never.
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Thanks for this!
Big Mama, LeeeLeee