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Originally Posted by healingme4me
That would be pretty key for me, personally.
I prefer a relationship where there's ownership on both sides. Not I can see how YOU could think/feel/see that, but I can see how My actions can affect you. So let's work together on our communication.
My sons father has yet to accept his role and might never.
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I agree 110% about ownership. Deal breaker for me if that isn't there on both sides. My ex refused to own any of his issues during marital therapy.
And he would never give genuine apologies at home. It would be "I'm sorry you feel that way." He was never wrong, in his eyes. There was only one way. His way.