For the first time once I'm out of the therapy I stood for myself to defend my borders. My neighbor borrowed my kids belonging and in front of kid told the time of return. She did not return it on time and didn't even contact me. So I sent sms saying that I'm upset and I want the thing to be returned by evening.
In return I got back multiple sms with insults. I did not want to be the same insulting *****, I just replied that I'm surprised by that much of gall.
Now my problem is - I feel scared to go into streets. I'm scared to meet her, I have no idea how to react, what to say. Ignore? Say hello? Worst part is that both of us have small kids who interact, I have no idea how to deal with their reactions.
Any ideas appreciated