There is a difference between supporting someone and {babying/coddling} someone.

How is Your depression not Your fault?

Is there someone who is forcing you to feel or think a certain way?

Are people not accountable for their own {actions/thoughts/inner-space}?

How is calling the sky blue arrogant?


Both of your comments have the "you don't know me" sentiment being expressed, which I find that people only utilize once they've been outed to an uncomfortable degree and are using that statement evasively, to deflect, to attempt to obscure a facet of themselves that they are uncomfortable with that has been brought to light.

Yes, people are obviously here because they want to be. They registered to be a user here just like everyone else.

Even people in "bad" living situations are only there because they want to be on some level. Even if they find it very "undesirable" or even "painful", because at a point a persons pain can easily become their pleasure- which is obvious in how some almost gloat about their pain and are so into their own suffering and suffering in general. The news/media knows this, that's why they show the stories they do.

Why do some people get "trapped" in an abusive relationship for so long? Because on some level they {liked/like} it for a time.

Why do some people get trapped in an impoverished environment fo so long? Because on some level they {liked/like} it for a time.

Why do some people get trapped in depression for so long? Because after a while they "like" it, they don't mind it so much anymore, it becomes normal, it becomes pleasurable- even though they may outwardly create the appearance of being "fed up with it", they do more actively to enable their own depression than they do to try to resolve it.