Hey, I'm just regifting someone's advice here to you.

From little what I know, I can't just judge your gf, some pair might just work fine with either one of them having an emotional off switch.

What I do know is that you do get those flashbacks, panic attacks and what not, these takes understandings and definitely should be a part of relationship rules.

Maybe is it time to make a relationship pros-cons list and evaluate the time from this present moment forward? I don't see your fault or ruining anything from the post itself, you didn't get some, **** happens.

Sex ain't a weapon, I hope you let her know that.