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Originally Posted by Luce
Maybe if it matters to them, it just matters? I am kinda feeling that way about an inner one who asked our ex t for a session recently. There are lots of reasons why I don't think we should do it (eg - it will be disruptive and painful for others) but on the other hand I think it mattered enough to this alt to ask for it, so maybe I should honor it. I haven't decided yet.
Maybe for you, if there is still hurt then there is still healing to be done?
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yes, i think you are right. i talked to hubby about it a bit and he thinks it would be a good thing to bring up at this weeks session, but i do worry that it will be disruptive for others in my system, and this particular issue already feels like it has been beaten to death over the years...