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Old Jul 27, 2016, 08:17 AM
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Originally Posted by ThisWayOut View Post
Wow, that's a really long break! The time my private-practice t took a 3 month break, she set up a blog of her adventures specifically for her clients. We couldn't contact her, but she posted pics and blurbs of highlights from her travels. She was only my group t at the time, so I still had my individual therapist, but it helped stay connected. She's currently away for a month with no blog or contact...


Maybe your t isn't necessarily "easily" breaking contact, but is caught-up in whatever she's doing during the break? If it's a leave-of-absence for personal or medical reasons, that may be what t is focusing on.


To the op, I didn't mean my first response to come off as flippant. I know it's still hard getting through the break. The one thing that helped me after the fact with the school break was that t said she was glad to see me again and had thought of me during the summer... it's reasonable to think that you likely cross t's mind at least once in a while, and t likely wonders what you are up to and how you are doing. Heck, I contacted that t I saw during school about 15 years after we ended and found out not only did she remember me, but she thought of me on occasion through the years...


Wow. That's a lovely thing to hear. Did you go back to the T of 15 years or just to let her know how you were doing?

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