Thanks everyone, I am definately going to talk to him.. Its super hard when you do trust someones expertise at such a level, they are usually right on, then they tell you something that really doesn't sound like you at all?? it makes me think.. am I totally blind to this? do I have my defenses up , or is it just his human ability to make a mistake.. or just a slight suggestion.. maybe its this.. I guess I really personalized the statement and got freaked out this could be me.