Glad to see this note. I haven't talked to my first T in about 8 years and I really want to send him a letter with a picture of my beautiful baby I had earlier this year. I saw him for three years and then had phone sessions with him for 5 more years after I moved away. One week I just stopped calling and there was never any official final "goodbye" session. I wonder if it would be OK to send him a note letting him now how things are.