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<font color="green">How is that working for you? Why do you feel the need to hurt yourself when your father upsets you? That really shows him! Tell me what do dad and I will clobber myself!
You deserve to be treated with respect. If the way that your father tells you to do things there would be nothing wrong with saying, "Dad, I feel put down, minimalized or whatever when you say things that way." If there is a way he could say it that wouldn't bother you then ask him to do it that way. Please take care of yourself.</font>
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dalila
Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do but it doesn't get you anywhere.
-Erma Bombeck
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