This thread has really helped me understand why therapy with my most recent T was not working - too much pathologizing to the point where I now attribute every negative emotion experienced to my "mental illness". Now, it is not ok for me to be angry even for a valid reason because it's all part of my problem. This T was NOT right for me, and now I can see how and why.

I think you should try and resolve this issue with T, but don't allow her to blame you. She has made mistakes by the sound of it, and in some cases, it seems all too easy for a therapist to blame a client for the therapy not working out without taking their share of the responsibility too.