I enjoyed reading of your adventure.
I have moved across country many times.
From Philadelphia Pa. tp Oceanside Ca. to NJ, to MN. to NC to MN toAZ to MN to NJ to MN. All in 35 years of marriage. No more moves for me. The next time I go anywhere will be in 81/2 years when I retire. Then I'm buying a place in NC and will spend winters there and summers here in MN.

I expect that you will get that house in order quickly and settle down.

I am saddened that your husband and you couldn't reconsile. I have many differences with my wife but, I endure because i do love her and my family.

Good luck to you in the future.