You're right, it is a shame. This is going to sound odd coming from me but I feel for his wife too and I did the entire time which is how I finally got the real story out of him. It took everything I have not to go and tell her but the truth is, I don't know that she doesn't already know. I don't believe it's my place to interfere any further. If I could undo it all, I would.

My T helped me to see that I should completely, in every aspect, remove myself from the whole situation. I was mentally spinning my wheels trying to think of ways to make things right and honorable with him. I can neither stop him from what he does, nor is it "helping" her for ME to tell her.

I'm still working through all these feelings of shame and anger. And, yes, I feel for her too, as I do for all the women he is manipulating.

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