I appreciate your honesty.

I have been the other one not knowing and one knowing. Both very short term and i was a teenager, not that it makes it any "better".

Now I'm on the other end. Not married no kids, thankfully. Just very co- dependent and emotionally.. Weak?

The other didn't know but knew. I hate her and feel for her. Such a mixture.

He's the one to blame 1000% and i remind myself of that daily.

People can be incredibly manipulative.