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Originally Posted by RxQueen875
Sorry I didn't read your post about her before but it seems like she's not there for you emotionally which would be a deal breaker for me. When my bf and I got together he really didn't know how to handle my MI but he's done research for me in looking for ways to be there for me. He takes me to all my appointments, pharmacies etc. whenever my illness is bothering me I can talk to him and he listens even though he may not know enough to respond. I still know he's listening and that's what matters.
Your GF said you killed the mood for having a breakdown? Jeez. Whenever I'm upset my bf is there for me and If anything, it makes us closer and more intimate.
Having my SO not want anything to do with my MI or being there for me would be a deal breaker.
And Devine mentioned you guys are in a open relationship? How's that work out? I wouldn't be able to share my partner personally but if that's your thing then so be it. Just be safe with your body,mind, and heart.
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We closed up the relationship, that's not a problem anymore.
The problem is that she doesn't even believe that mental health is a thing.
I would say something about my psychosis and she would say: "It's all in your head"
I would say something that is true about us, like "you flirt and want to kiss everyone when you are drunk" and she would say "you are being paranoid, stop thinking about it"
She makes everything looks like its my fault, which has triggered a voice that continuously repeats "It's your fault"