If you don't take the time now to do the work on your past where will your marriage be in a few years? Try doing what you need to do and asking your husband to be patient with you during the process. I have to say I think that healing the past is more likely to strengthen your present relationships than working on them and ignoring your past.
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dalila
Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do but it doesn't get you anywhere.
-Erma Bombeck
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