I agree that it sounds like an emotional affair. Likelihood of changing is rather slim. It isn't easy navigating the betrayal and heartache that comes from a spouse stepping out of the marriage. Yes, too often, the blow to one's sense of self worth is significant. There will be stages of grieving.

What difference would it make in knowing the answer to that question?

He probably lacks the capacity to love, so, it's complicated to say the least. What matters is you!

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