I am so sorry for what you're going through, it sounds completely overwhelming... and to have to deal with your husband on top of that? Wow, I'm sorry.

It sounds like you see a fair number of doctors. Can you speak to any of them about your home situation? Do you think any of them could help get you to a safe place? I think that might be your best bet at getting help... and getting out. Do you ever have a chance to speak to them without your husband being there? Does he leave the house to work during the day?

The other alternatives that I can think of, offhand... if he works, could you call your local police during the day for assistance? Tell them that you have medical issues, and need help packing up a few things and transportation to a women's shelter. From there, the shelter should have resources to help.

With your physical state, would something like that be possible? I'm not sure, from what you're describing... so again... maybe your doctors are in the best position to help.

Are you in Canada (your info says Vancouver)? Don't they have some sort of universal health coverage there? I'm sorry, I don't know how the health system works up there? I'm trying to figure out if you can still get care, even if you're not on your husband's insurance.

*hugs* Again, I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope you can find a way to get away from your husband, and to start feeling a little better...