I'm sorry you are feeling unsafe in this forum.... disclosure: I identify as gender-neutral/androgynous, am bisexual, and have transgender loved ones.

I know, that almost sounds like the equivalent of, "...I have [insert race/gender/sexual preference here] friends" therefore i get some kind of pass. I get what you are saying - how would posters feel about men interacting in Women-only forum, perhaps feeling like this is some kind of vicarious tourism for cis-gendered persons....